如何对待批评

Jul 3, 2023

不能下去……(尼希米记6:3)

尼希米就如何对待批评,教导我们三件重要的事情:一、要料到会有批评。当观众观看比赛时,注意力集中在哪里?领先的选手!有人说:“我们若是一言不发,无动于衷,视若无物,这样就能轻而易举地回避批评。”。”但这三个选择都行不通。尼希米这么回复批评者:“我正在做一件大工程,不能下去见你们。”不要降低到批评者的水平。二、权衡批评。“参巴拉……告诉我说:‘来,我们……见面吧。’其实他们想要害我。”(尼希米记6:2)当有人说“我是为你好才告诉你这事”,通常都不是什么好事。当你受到批评时,问问你自己:1.“谁在批评我?”“朋友加的创伤出自真诚,仇敌连连亲吻却是多余。”(箴言27:6)这个人有权利对你指手画脚吗?2.“为什么我会受到这样的批评?这是出于批评者个人的伤痛,还是为了我的益处?”受伤的人会伤人。因此你要保持正确的态度,寻找真相,做一些必要的调整,然后勇往前行。三、经受批评。当尼希米的朋友们告诉他去躲起来,他回答说:“像我……岂能进入殿里保命?我决不进去。……城墙竣工,前后用了五十二天。我们的敌人和周围各国听说后……他们知道这工作是在上帝的帮助下完成的。”(尼希米记6:11-16)有时朋友的劝告比敌人的批评更加危险。这时必须知道你的身份,以及上帝对你的呼召,并且要经受批评。

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