How to Build Good Relationships

Oct 10, 2020

‘...Love is not jealous, it does not brag, and it is not proud...’1 Corinthians 13:4 NCV

Do you remember the elder brother in the parable of the prodigal son? He wanted the privileges of being a son, but not the obligations that came with being a brother. And because he couldn’t celebrate his brother’s return, it cost him his joy. Contrary to what you may have heard, speaking critical words doesn’t make you feel better, it just makes you more miserable and keeps the problem alive. The Bible says, ‘Pleasant words are… healing to the body.’ (Proverbs 16:24 AMP) If you value your opinions more than your friends, you’ll defend your opinions and destroy your friendships. When conflicts arise, step back and look at what’s really important. Give others the benefit of the doubt. When working with yourself, use your head; when working with others, use your heart. Learn to be flexible. Thomas Jefferson said, ‘In matters of principle stand like a rock; in matters of taste swim with the current.’ Don’t major on the minor things, and stop fighting over things that ultimately make no difference. Be gracious with others in the same way God is gracious with you. Mature love allows someone who has failed to ease out of the situation with their dignity and honour intact. Once you’ve made your point, back off! In life, you’re always going to have disagreements. They’ll either give you ulcers or give you understanding—the choice is yours. Don’t over-react. When conflict arises make it a time to learn, not lose. If you’re serious about building good relationships, live by the words, ‘Love your neighbour as you love yourself.’

SoulFood: Eph 1:1–4:16, John 2:1–11, Ps 110, Pro 23:6–9
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